Attractive Attraction

The Magnetic, Attracting Power of the Mind

The power of the mind draws certain events, circumstances and people into our lives and repels others. In this respect, it resembles a magnet. Just look at the people around you. Some pass through certain events and circumstances, while others pass through different experiences. Some accomplish c...

How to Make More Friends Instantly

I think some people set about making friends the wrong way. They go out of their way to impress them or tell them of the great accomplishments that they have done. While this tactic might indeed impress people, it does not generate true friendship. This article will tell you the simple secret of ...

Attracting Opportunity — 10 Tips

You get what you attract - with your thoughts, words, beliefs, actions and inactions. Here are 10 tips for attracting opportunity:

Decide what you want, what you must do to get it, and then map out a plan to do what you must. Action is the keyword here. Do what you have to do; sow then you...

Back On Track

I truly believe unless we are doing what brings us joy, we need to think twice about what we're doing, why we're doing it and even take it a step further by finding the courage to do something about it so the joy is there.

For the past couple of months I've been going through a bit of a ...

Simplify Your Way to Success

Throughout history it has been said repeatedly that the simple truths are the most profound. It is also said the truth is often overlooked because of its simplicity. When I was in my twenties, I was very philosophical and used to spend my free hours speaking with friends and coworkers about the...

Words Are Seeds

The words you speak sow seeds in the minds of those who hear. The formed word is like the shell of the seed. It hides the potential for manifestation in its tiny, unassuming exterior. The word can fool us with its humble appearance. It passes swiftly in conversation: just a couple of syllables, s...

How To Make A Strong First Impression Seven Tips That Really Work

We have all heard this warning: You never get a second chance to make a good first impression. Also, human behavior specialists caution that we only have from seven to seventeen seconds of interacting with strangers before they form an opinion of us.

With this widely acknowledged pressure t...

Understanding How Our Lives Unfold

Surely you've heard of the concept 'your thoughts create your future.'

I think this is currently being talked about in all of the self-improvement programs. And, who of us has not read nearly all of them?

Why we think we need self-improvement, I don't know.

Aren't we just f...

The Power Of The Edge

Reality has no edge. In fact, that's how we recognize it. If it has an edge, it's not reality.

A movie on a big screen draws you into its reality immediately. Once you lose your awareness of the edge of the screen, the film becomes your world. A world with no edge becomes reality. For an...

Invisible Assumptions

They are sort of like the bones in your body. You can't see them and yet they give you your shape and they determine how you move. If they change, everything changes. You can imagine them like the wood frame of a house. Concealed behind the walls, it gives the dwelling its form and character. T...

Finding Your Soulmate

As a wholeness coach, I so often hear the rather desperate sounding comments of clients who want to find their soulmate, even amongst those who are presently married. (obviously unhappily) Most individuals long for companionship, someone with whom to share their life, instead of continued alonene...

Thought vs. Action

Balancing thought and action is a challenge for many people, especially those who are self-employed. How much time should you spend thinking vs. doing? We hear things like, "failing to plan is planning to fail," implying that careful thought must govern all action. But then there are also the c...

Is this Really How You Want to Live

I heard somewhere that just as nature hates vacuum and immediately rushes in to fill the gap, so it's not possible to hold two emotions simultaneously. That is, you can be happy or you can be miserable, but you can't be both at the same time.

All rather obvious and some might say simplist...

We’ll All Experience It Some Day

The strangest thing came over me for the last couple of days. I've been researching mind bending stuff that goes down to the very core of behavior and beyond. It's been incredibly helpful in restructuring my "mental map" but at the same time there's been such huge foundational changes in my ...

How to Make Self-Improvement Work Every Time!

There is an inherent problem with the approach most people take to self-improvement of any kind. There is a presupposition that there is something wrong that needs fixing. Perhaps it is true that there are areas in their lives that they wish to change. However, the mindset with which they approac...