Attractive Attraction

How to improve and be Attractive

How to Make Self-Improvement Work Every Time!

There is an inherent problem with the approach most people take to self-improvement of any kind. There is a presupposition that there is something wrong that needs fixing. Perhaps it is true that there are areas in their lives that they wish to change. However, the mindset with which they approach transformation will very often NEGATE any positive results they might have. Why? Because all of their focus is on the PROBLEM they are trying to solve, rather than their vision for what their life will be like on without the alleged problem.

There is a very basic physical natural law which ultimately determines ANY success on ANY level. This law dictates exactly what our experience will be from moment to moment. Best of all, this law is fully under our control at all times, even if we are not aware of it.

This “law” is the Law of Attraction. Most of the time, you hear about this law in terms of how it will help you to attract wealth or abundance in general. However, the Law of Attraction transcends just those basic desires. The Law of Attraction dictates that you will receive back exactly what you “vibrate”…that is, what you are FEELING. Where is your attention? Is it on the feelings associated with the problem, or with the feelings of no longer having the problem?

If you approach self-improvement material with the desire to “get rid of the problem”, and if all your feelings are on how terrible or frustrating this “problem” is, Universal Law dictates that you will simply attract MORE of those feelings…more of the circumstances that brought the problem to you in the first place. The Universe isn’t “out to get you”. It is simply responding to the “request” that you are putting out by way of your feelings.

If, however, you approach your self-improvement solutions with high positive feelings associated with what your life WILL be…if you visualize your success with your program of choice on all sensory levels, particularly on the level of EMOTION, you will literally magnetically ATTRACT the success you are looking for! Miracles will occur!

While this may sound very “mystic” or even preposterous, I submit to you that EVERY aspect of your life right now has been brought to you in perfect response to your prevailing thoughts and beliefs which directly affect your emotional state, which in turn causes you to emit very specific and magnetic frequencies which attract like frequencies.

We must never forget that beyond simply being flesh and bone, we are, at a molecular level, ENERGY. And our personal energy obeys the same physical laws as all other Energy which we study more traditionally.

The wealthiest, most successful people in the world use the Law of Attraction (albeit often unconsciously) to effortlessly bring into their lives whatever they envision. This could be wealth, successful businesses, or satisfying relationships. Or, it could simply be wisdom, peace of mind, and a sense of purpose.

The big secret is that you truly CAN have whatever you want, regardless of how “pie-in-the-sky” this may sound. You need only learn a few key concepts about HOW to ask for what you want to begin receiving it in abundance! Despite what you may currently believe or have been taught, it is not the purpose of our lives to struggle, to work hard for years, or try to “figure things out”. Our job is to do what we love to do. When we do that with full trust and knowing that doing so will naturally attract our deepest desires, we become powerful magnets, which absolutely assures our success.

Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of

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Enjoy the Magic of Prosperity

There is an art and a science to prosperity. The art is playing with the magic of prosperity. The science is aligning with the physics of prosperity.

Play at Life!

Why does the money run out? Why doesn’t passion stay around? Why doesn’t health last?

Perhaps because we’re not playing. Instead, we’re analyzing and strategizing. By not being innocent, open, willing, spontaneous and flexible, we kill the magic of natural prosperity.

Results are important in life. And life works out best when played like a kid’s gamein the spirit of a fun adventure between two best friends. When approached lightlynot as a deadly serious contestlife actually responds more readily to our wishes.

In fact, the happiest outcomes occur when we play along with the fluctuations of life instead of fighting them. Humor and laughter activate energy flow, which, in turn, generates abundance.

Ride the Pulse of Prosperity

Just like the body’s circulatory system, prosperity has a pulse, a rhythm. When we’re willing to go along with the pace and pattern of life’s changes, we prosper. When we tighten up, hold back, or try to control or micro-manage life’s vacillations, we cut ourselves off from life’s natural bounty. The magic dies.

Align with Attraction

Do you feel stuck? Are you struggling to make life work? Tired of your own soap opera reruns?

Get your life aligned with the Law of Attraction!

Scientists agree with spiritual teachers. Prosperity is simply the natural physics of the universe. Science calls it the Law of Quantum Physics. Metaphysics calls it the Law of Spiritual Attraction. Like energy attracts like energy. Like vibration attracts like vibration. Like qualities attract like qualities. This is Instant Karma in all its beauty and fierce justice.

Scientifically speaking, all physical matter in life is pulsating electromagnetic energy that undulates in a wave motionand thus, naturally connects with those aspects of life that are on that same wavelength.

An Inside Job

So how do you put cash in your pocket, romance in your bedroom, and vitality in your body?

The Latin root of “prosperity” means “to make happy, favorable, successful, fortunate, thriving. Prosperity is not an outer circumstance or state. Prosperity is an inner feeling or spacean experience of oneself as joyful and flourishing. Outer events are the reflections of how you have been flowing from your Source Energy. This is what a good creator doesflow energy.

You can attract prosperity with your personal magnetism. As you focus your attention on your dream, the Law of Attraction brings your desires to you automatically.

True prosperity is having what you choose to have as you choose to have it.

Here are a few effective, pragmatic ways to tap into the River of Plenty.

Master the Law of Giving and Receiving

When you give freely of your gifts and talents, you receive back in kind. The key to success here is how you give, not what you give. When you come from a place of bountiful giving, you receive plentifulness in return. When you give from a place of lack or limitation (for example, expecting something in return as a pay-off), you receive back the same vibration or qualitya reflection of lack and limitation. When you give from a space or energy of fear (scarcity consciousness), the universe mirrors that poverty back to you.

Align Your Personality with Your Soul

Align your personality’s actions and attitudes with your soul purpose and passionand your life will unfold in a profoundly easy, delightful and bountiful way.

Walk with an Appreciative Heart

What you appreciate in life appreciatesincreases, grows. The more aspects of life you appreciate, the richer you become inwardlyand, in turn, outwardly, according to the Law of Attraction.

Prosperity Begets Prosperity

Prosperity is a living, organic state of being. Prosperity defies the laws of economics in that it’s not a commodity that we have less of when we give some away. Prosperity grows greater for the giver as it’s given. The more you share, the more you end up receiving. Give and you shall attract. Nature does abhor a vacuum!

Draw from Your Prosperity Consciousness Bank Account

Vibrations of good times can be stored up for retrieval during challenging times. Prosperous times can remind you emotionally and physically of how the vibration of happiness feelsand shift you palpably into those good vibes in the present.

Experientially re-living peak moments from the past is more transforming than mentally remembering an event. “Positive experiencing” is even more powerful than “positive thinking.”

Make Room for Miracles

Create the attitude and conditions that make miracles more likely to occur. Fear less and dare more. Invite surprise. Welcome serendipity. Be open to unexpected sources of income, resources and supportespecially those that don’t “make sense” to the intellect with its limited range of possibilities.

And stay open to invisible assistance from your spirit friendsbe they angels, Ascended Masters or spirit guides.

Ask “Why not?”

Take the road less traveled. Be different, creative, fluid, experimental. See fresh possibilities, better combinations, and new opportunities and challenges where others see problems or limitations. Exude excitement and enthusiasm about daily life. The electromagnetic energy of this exuberant, open attitude will attract magic, meaning and money into your world.

Quit Energizing the Past

The past only exists to the degree we unconsciously drag it into the present. Take charge of how yesterday affects your today. Regard the past as an eternal stream of “practice takes” that allow you to “get it right” in this moment! And energize only the elements of the past that feed the plentiful reality you are creating now.

Forgive then Forgive Some More!

By learning to forgive ourselves and others, we give ourselves the gift of freedom from the past. Forgiveness loosens the debilitating constraints of anger, resentment, cynicism, regret and despairand releases our hearts to swell with aliveness and compassion. Give yourself and others Blanket Forgivenessnow!

Take Charge of the Present Moment

“Now” is the only time you can control. All success and bounty flows from the power of the vibration you are in each moment. By learning to be present in the current momentin the “current” of the momentyou naturally receive the treasures that it carries.

Feng-shui Your Life!

Give yourself a “Spacelift.” By intuitively re-arranging the elements of your daily life, you can create the quality of time and space that will increase your ability to receive abundance. Clear your path of illusions and lies so that your creating attention flows solely to your dreams, not to the distractions and myths of life.

Tap the Power of Surrender

Worry serves as a signal that we must tend to some aspect of life. But when we have done all that we do for the moment, it’s time to let go of anxiety and surrender to Universal Support. When intense emotions arisewhether delight or grief, excitement or fearabandon yourself to them. Don’t hold on! Relax that death grip on your feelingsand, in doing so, on the inflow of life’s aliveness and bounty!

Feel Extravagantly

Feel the pain as well as the joy. Shake with fear. Let the anger rise up and roar! If you’re not truly feeling, you’re not truly aliveyou’re just going through the paces. You’re only having a NLENear-Life Experience.

You can’t have money, love and health without feeling your emotions. Primal Life Force is the energy that animates all of life’s rewards. That same exact energy comprises the essence of all emotion. The core natures of prosperity and emotion are one and the same: Source Energy. Make friends with your feelings and you open the floodgate to easy, natural abundance in your life!

About The Author

Keith Varnum has 30 years of practical success as an author, accupuncturist, personal coach, filmmaker, vision quest guide, and international seminar leader, and is the owner of http://www.TheDream.com and http://TheCareerDoctor.net.

Keith@thedream.com

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Do Good Deeds & Get Rewarded A Universal Mystery Uncovered

Do you believe in the idea of “abundance” or do you see the whole notion as just a load of “airy-fairy” nonsense spouted by “new age” goody goodies?

As you’ll soon discover - I firmly believe that giving is an essential part of an expert business’s marketing mix.

I’ve read plenty on the subject of giving in order to gain, and have practiced it since I launched my first business in 1997, because it just seems to work so well.

But nothing I’ve heard or read in this time has ever been able to explain how giving turns into gain. If you’re like me then you may be unwilling to just accept the wishy-washy abundance explanation that 2+2=5. We all know that 2+2=4!

So what’s really going on?

I think I have a good idea why giving works so well and I’m going to share that with you here.

Here’s my explanation of why doing good deeds will improve the success of your business and bring you more wealth and happiness…

The Universal Law of Abundance Uncovered…

In my book entitled, The Gorillas Want Bananas, I share the top 7 things that Lean Marketers do to be successful. 2 of the 7 activities that I recommend are based around giving…

1. Giving Referrals

2. Giving Freebies

But, how can it be that giving stuff away brings you more business success and profit?

I’ll begin to answer this by first telling you about an excellent book (and now film)…

Pay It Forward

Reuben St. Clair, the teacher protagonist in the book Pay It Forward, starts a movement with a voluntary, extra-credit assignment:

THINK OF AN IDEA FOR WORLD CHANGE,
AND PUT IT INTO ACTION

Trevor, a 12 year old student, thinks of an idea…

“You see, I do something real good for three people. And then when they ask how they can pay it back, I say they have to Pay It Forward. To three more people. Each. So nine people get helped. Then those people have to do twenty-seven.”

He turned on the calculator, punched in a few numbers.

“Then it sort of spreads out, see. To eighty-one. Then two hundred forty-three. Then seven hundred twenty-nine. Then two thousand, one hundred eighty-seven. See how big it gets?”

The maths, are based on the law of exponential growth using powers of three…

* Let’s say you can do three good deeds this month.

* This time next year there will be 3^12 good deeds done in one month. That’s 531,441 (over half a million in one month)

* Just think… what if 100 people started with 3 deeds in that first month?

Trevor also observes:

“It doesn’t have to be a big thing. It can just seem that way, depending on whom you do it for.”

The 3 Vital Ingredients of The Abundance Puzzle
There are 2 things we’ll take from the story above and an additional one, based on The Small World Effect, that ties it all together and brings it full circle so that we get our rewards…

1. Viral Growth

This exponential thing isn’t something that was invented along with the Internet - it’s behind epidemics, whether they’re social movements, trends or diseases. Getting people to join your movement by passing things forward can create dramatic exposure and quickly.

2. Small Deeds that Seem Big

The idea that the deed only has to be “perceived as big” is the key to how you can give referrals, provide high value stuff and do seemingly huge favours without even thinking about the need for a payback… By the way, it’s important that you approach this without any expectation of a direct payback from the people you help - if you don’t you’ll be frustrated.

3. It’s a Small World

You’ve probably already heard of the, Small World Effect, 6 degrees of separation, or Kevin Bacon Game. They’re essentially telling us the same thing… It’s the idea that we are all linked to everyone else by 5 intermediaries or less. Recent theoretical work suggests that the number may or may not be 6, but it is certainly small not 100 for example.

Just think about it. If you know 300 people who each know 300 people who each know 300 people etc then it doesn’t take long to hit the whole population of earth within about 6 steps.

Keep these three things in mind and…

Your Reward Will Come

So let’s agree that everyone is linked by 6 steps or less. Doing favours and encouraging the recipients to act in the same way when dealing with others means that your reward will happen from unexpected sources and more quickly than you could imagine.

You’ll become a benefactor of the very thing you’ve started, only there will be far more good things coming your way than you initially set in motion. This is the combination of quick viral growth and a small world.

So, your marketing can relax from the usual and frustrating ‘what’s in it for me?’ approach to one where you feel good, look good and get rewarded naturally.

You’ll also soon discover that the more you give the more you receive so there’s no reason why you should stop at doing just 3 good deeds…

Your Chance To Take Part In My “Pay It Forward” Experiment…
One of my favourite good deeds is giving F’REE information to people. So, I’d like to start my own Pay It Forward movement by giving you 2 F’REE eBooks.

If You Haven’t Already Then Download Them Here…

Rather than expecting anything in return from you, all I ask is that you do 3 or more good deeds for people you know. The easiest one being to share this link, www.leanmarketing.co.uk with 3 or more contacts who might benefit from these F’REE eBooks too.

So, get involved and see how long it is before you’re good deed is rewarded. Then plan to start your own Pay It Forward movement and be sure to tell me what you’re doing.

Speak Soon,

‘Dangerous’ Debbie Jenkins
debs@debbiejenkins.com

(c) Copyright 2005 www.BookShaker.com

SUMMER CAN BE SLOW FOR BUSINESS
But don’t let that get in the way of your success.
This is the ideal time to work on your business
rather than in it. Get 2 F’REE eBooks and prepare
for more success with less effort here…
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