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If You’re in a Hole, Stop Digging

If you find yourself in a difficult situation, don’t continue doing what you are doing. Although, it might seem like simple advice that should be common sense, remember common sense isn’t. It is based on life experience. If we haven’t had the experience, we might not know how to handle it. We may be under the illusion that if we keep on doing what we are doing things will change. They won’t. Doing the same thing and expecting things to be different is the definition of insanity. If you are not getting the results you want, it is because you are not doing the right actions. Stop doing what you are doing and do something else, anything else. Just remember, if you are in a hole, the best thing to do is stop digging and create a plan for getting out of the hole.

When life isn’t going our way, the first thing to look at is our actions. Stop and ask yourself what you are doing to create the situation. It might seem like you are an innocent victim, but the truth is there are very few innocent victims. Most of us, when given the opportunity, can figure out what part we are playing in creating what we don’t want in our lives. It can be something like staying in a job we hate, or letting a friend treat us poorly, or not standing up for ourselves. More than likely we are doing something or allowing something to happen that isn’t serving us. Stop! Give yourself the opportunity to take a few steps back from the situation and access what is really going on. If you can’t do this on your own, seek help from a professional or trusted friend. Often, others can see what isn’t working in our lives and what the cause is better than we can. Once you figure out what you need to do differently, do it. Knowing what to change and not changing it doesn’t help you.

Where are you continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole? Perhaps you continue to overspend creating more and more credit card debt or perhaps you are not taking the steps that will enable you to seek a better job. Whatever you are doing that is creating a deep hole, stop, decide what actions you are doing that contribute to the situation and change it. Awareness is the first step. The next step is to take action.

About The Author

Coach Lee is a Certified Master Coach specializing in working with business owners and professionals in being more profitable and productive while staying sane and balanced. Coach Lee is the publisher of the award winning e-zine, 365 Days of Coaching, because life happens every day. Visit Coach Lee at her websites http://coachlee.com and http://www.365daysofcoaching.com. True Direction, Inc. Copyright

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Seven Simple Steps to Attract Abundance and Prosperity to You Now!

Seven Simple Steps to Attract Abundance and Prosperity Now!

1. Pay attention to what you say - your words indicate what you think and feel.
This is where it all begins and where change can occur. When your thoughts
tell you there isn’t enough, that something is missing, you are in lack
consciousness. Know it’s okay for those thoughts to surface for we all find
ourselves in this place at times, but don’t remain there!

2. As the thoughts of ‘can’t have it’ or ‘not enough’ surface into your consciousness,
visualize a mental garbage pail and toss those thoughts in it. Tell yourself
you know this is not a truth and you no longer need that thought, so you’re
trashing it. Then immediately focus your thoughts on something good.

3. Surrender your dis-empowering thoughts about lack. You’ve recognized their
existence and have begun to toss out those unwanted thoughts, but now ask for
Divine assistance to help you change your thinking. Here’s where your real
power is!

4. Remind yourself that you deserve all the good things you desire. Most
individuals fall down with their manifestation at this point because they genuinely
don’t believe they deserve the good. People who say “What else would you expect?
Things like this always happen to me” are simply saying they don’t deserve the
good so don’t expect it. Duh! So why do you complain when abundance passes you
by since you set yourself up for more lack?

5. Look around at all you presently have and are. Make a physical list of the
things and people who are blessing your life right now and read it daily - your home,
family, health, job, friends, etc. - and everyday things from the easy drive home
from work that day to the neighbor who surprised you by cutting your grass, even
though it was shorter than you like it! Be grateful for everything in your life, including
the extra bill facing you that you’re not sure how you’re going to pay. As you do this
you will see changes in the way you perceive life and the way life responds to you.
Remember, it must be genuine because your spirit knows what your truth is.

6. Now do nothing! That’s right - do nothing. The universe will begin immediately to
bring your desires, but you must get out of the way. This is so hard for most people
because we are used to being in control, thinking we must make things happen. Don’t
do it or you’ll block the flow of abundance that’s on its way to you. When abundance
and you are in alignment it will simply flow effortlessly to you in amazing ways.

7. Say “thank you.” Even though your desires haven’t manifested yet, become grateful
for them before they are seen. By this you are saying you know they will arrive and
you’re acknowledging this as a sign of your belief; this is called faith.

These simple steps will take you to the realm of abundance and prosperity. I know because I’m living proof that it works. Although I say they are simple steps, it is often not an easy task to shift your entire way of thinking and believing. Know that in the beginning it might even be difficult and you may be tempted to give up when doubts creep in. Don’t give up! It’s not something that happens overnight. Success in everything requires taking baby steps to achieve the desired end result. Follow these guidelines listed above and watch the miracles unfold in your life! And as the abundance and prosperity flows to you effortlessly, then move forward through the doors that open to you.

Here are some examples of how to change your thoughts and words from lack to abundance.

Lack: I wish I had the money to buy a new car, or at least one that’s newer with less problems.
Abundance: Thank you for sending the resources to buy the perfect car for me, one that runs beautifully.

Lack: We can’t ever seem to get ahead with our finances.
Abundance: I choose freedom from debt by making wiser choices with my finances.

Lack: There just isn’t enough money; we’re always having so many things break down.
Abundance: I am grateful for the money I have to pay the bills I can and know the rest will come
in Divine timing.

Lack: I hate my job. It is boring but pays the bills so I guess I’m stuck in it.
Abundance: I am grateful for my job but place the intention for a job that allows me creativity and
enjoyment, and gives me my present income or more.

Lack: I’ve been waiting a long time for Mr./Ms. Right. All my friends have someone so why can’t I?
Abundance: I place the intention for my soulmate to show up in the right and perfect timing.

Do not try to figure anything out - no details, no plan, no manipulation. Simply say the words and let it go, then watch all the pieces come together. State exactly what you want. It is really that simple! When it doesn’t work, it is because you got in the way of the Divine flow and blocked it.

Sometimes the easiest things in life seem to be the hardest. Is it because we expect something of value to be hard, that we must work hard to obtain it? Or is it the old thought that it must be too good to be true. I can promise you that the best things in life are free and come without strings attached, and they all come from LOVE!

Give this a try - you have nothing to lose and everything to gain! Need help? Contact Carolyn through the information that follows.

Carolyn Porter, D. Div.
Empower Productions, Inc.
www.drcarolynporter.com
info@drcarolynporter.com

Carolyn Porter, D. Div. is an Author of multiple books and ebooks, Spiritual Counselor, Life Coach, and works with the Angelic realm. Her passion is to help you understand your power of choice and how to create your life into what you truly want and deserve. She is available for coaching and energy sessions. Please visit http://www.drcarolynporter.com for more information.

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God Doesn’t Say “No”…YOU Do!

There are a couple of things you’ve probably heard said over
and over. The first is, “Why doesn’t God answer my
prayers?”. What you’ll generally hear next is the response
which goes something like, “God DOES answer your prayers.
Sometimes he just says ‘No’”.

The fact is, it’s not God who says “No”. In fact, God - the
infinite source of “All that Is”, ONLY says “Yes”! God is
the ultimate “creation” mechanism. God responds PRECISELY to
YOUR creative catalyst.

So you say, “Well, I’ve been asking God for money, but he
hasn’t given it to me.”. The answer lies in HOW you are
asking! Remember that God - the Universe - responds in a
very precise way! It’s a matter of Quantum Physics! If your
prayer goes something like, “Dear God. I’m in trouble. I
have no money. I can’t pay any of the bills. I need money!”,
then THAT is what will be real for you. You WILL be in
trouble. You WILL have no money! You WON’T be able to pay
the bills, and you WILL NEED MONEY.

The Universe feeds back to you what you give it - and in
fact, amplifies it!

If who you are “being” is a person with what we’ll call
“lack consciousness”, then LACK will be your reality! Every
thought you have about “not having” will be mirrored in your
experience of reality.

Do you desire wealth? Then BE wealthy first, and the
Universe will respond.

The fact is, we are here for the express purpose of creating
our realities and living incredible lives. We are the
manifestation of God’s experience in the physical. God does
not desire for us to live in lack, and in fact strongly
desires that we have everything we desire. It is WHY we have
desires in the first place! We are not only meant to have
our desires realized, but we have the ability to have them
manifest in our lives WHENEVER we want!

However, our egos and limiting belief systems have distorted
our power. We have made ourselves “small”. We have created
thoughts about wealth and prosperity that make them
inaccessible to us. Yet they are RIGHT THERE…waiting for
us to experience them.

God does not say, “No, you may not experience wealth.” God
says, “YES! EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING!”. However the “mechanics”
of reality creation require you to BELIEVE that you already
have the things you desire. That’s why it’s so easy for so
many people to experience “lack”. It’s easier for them to
believe that they “can’t have something” than it is for them
to have everything they want because they have all this
external “evidence”. The fact is, however, that it is just
as “easy” to have either one. It is simply a matter of your
belief.

Your current experience is the PERFECT manifestation of your
current belief system. It is the EFFECT, not the cause. YOU
are the cause your experience. When you can integrate that,
you can begin to create consciously from the inside out
(which is the only way you CAN create). You can break out of
the “loop” which has you believing that your external
circumstances are causing your experience.

You must understand that whatever your experience is right
now, it is God (the Universe, All that Is) saying “YES” to
whoever it is you are being, thinking, speaking, and acting.

To create consciously you MUST “be”, “think”, “speak”, and
“act” that your desires are already fulfilled - and they
shall be. To the extent that you do these things, you will
experience the “yes” that you REALLY desire from God much
more quickly.

Sincerely,
Bob Doyle
www.wealthbeyondreason.net

Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of Boundless Living and the
developer of the “Wealth Beyond Reason” program, which
provides a continuing education of the physics of wealth,
abundance, and joyous living through the Law of Attraction.
http://wealthbeyondreason.net

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