Attractive Attraction

You’ve heard me talk in previous articles about Deliberate attraction. The Law of Attraction is a powerful force that is operating in every moment, including this moment right now. Knowing that we all offer a vibration (vibe) in every moment, and that The Law of Attraction matches that vibration and brings us more of the same vibration (whether wanted, or unwanted), it is important for us to understand the significance of becoming deliberate about what it is that we are vibrationally offering. The more we learn to apply The Law of Attraction to our lives and tap into this powerful force, the more deliberate we learn to become as attractors. This speeds up the manifestation of our desires. And that brings us to the topic of this article. Is visualization needed to manifest our desires?

Let’s begin by reviewing the 3-step formula for Deliberate Attraction:

1) I identify my desire (being as clear as I can).

2) I raise my vibration (by giving my desire attention).

3) I allow (by reducing my resistance to receiving my desire).

Often, people will tell me they have already identified their desires and typically made a huge list of what those desires are. I am frequently asked, “Michael, how come the Law of Attraction didn’t manifest my desire?” When I ask them where that list is right now, two answers I usually get are: “Oh I don’t have it anymore.” And, “It’s tucked away somewhere.”

It is important to remember that The Law of Attraction is a 3-step process and not a 1-step process. The Law of Attraction states, “Whatever I give my attention, energy and focus to, I’ll attract more of it, whether wanted or unwanted.” After we have determined our desires, we need to give attention to those desires. This is why most people who build a list, and then tuck it away, never see the desires on that list manifest.

I like to teach the deliberate use of The Law of Attraction through words because words are a common denominator that we all share. We speak, hum, sing, read, write, paint and process words in every moment of our day. All words carry a vibration for the person who says them or thinks them. There are, however, different ways to give attention to your desires. Some people like to use words, through writing, or talking with others about their desires. Other people like to visualize, or use art forms like making collages. It is true that all of these ways will give attention to your desires and help to raise your vibration. However, it is also true that not all of these methods or tools will feel good to everyone using them. So, how do YOU determine if a method is the right one for you to use? It’s easy.

If it feels good, then use it. If it doesn’t, then don’t!

That’s all there is to it. To insist that someone needs to visualize in order to manifest their desires, when visualizing is a frustrating endeavour for that person, is opposing the purpose of using the tool in the first place! While that person is visualizing, their frustration would be creating a negative vibration instead of increasing their positive vibration even higher. The same goes for any of the methods or tools I’ve suggested in practicing the Law of Attraction. Use them only if they feel good to you.

To summarize, ask yourself this question when checking to see if visualization or any other method or tool is right for you. Do I feel good as I am using this method or tool? Is this method or tool helping me to offer a positive vibration? If the answer is yes then be assured that it is an effective tool for you to keep on using as you continue to manifest your desires.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don’t. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t, visit http://www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

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Ancient lore tells us that there’s a magical genie who lives in a lamp and
the person who possesses that lamp has the power to invoke wishes
and desires beyond our wildest dreams.

If I told you that Genie lives in you, would you believe me? Maybe not.

But if I told you that there was another character who lives in you and
complains, whines and was negative about your day to day life as well
as your dreams, would you believe me then? I’ll bet you would.
Because we are all far too familiar with this character whom I call the
Gremlin.

The Gremlin is that part of you who keeps your fears, anxieties and
doubts alive and well. His entire purpose is to maintain control over you,
keeping things status quo even if you’re not happy with the status quo.

He believes his purpose is to keep you safe by not allowing you to take
risks, speak up for yourself or create changes in your life that you know
in your heart need changing. And, he definitely wants to make sure the
Genie doesn’t make an appearance. Because once the Genie shows
up, the Gremlin knows he’s no longer in charge.

For way too many years I lived with the Gremlin as the one in charge
until I learned how to quiet him enough to awaken my Genie Within
making him my full time partner and only allowing my Gremlin to visit
occasionally.

Now you may ask, “Why allow the Gremlin to visit even occasionally?”
Because it’s important to realize your Gremlin will always be there.
You’re human and it’s only natural to have both negative and positive
thoughts show up throughout your life. But the trick is, to be aware of
your Gremlin when he’s around so you can consciously quiet him
enough to allow yourself to feel a little bit better about a situation and
give the Genie Within the chance to come to the surface and help you
find better solutions, ask different questions and attract into your life
more of what you do want, not what you don’t want. Which, by the way, is
what the Gremlin does. Attracts what you don’t want.

To get you started in shifting from your Gremlin thinking to your Genie
thinking I’d like to share with you 5 Tips To Quiet Your Gremlin and 5
questions to Awaken your Genie Within.

1. Let your Gremlin be when he starts up with you.
Focus more on your body and see where he’s showing up in your body.
Does your head hurt? Is your neck stiff? Is your stomach in a knot?
Breathe into those areas until you feel some relief.

2. Give your Gremlin permission to rant and rave for a bit.
Don’t judge him, don’t panic over what’s being said or resist anything.
Just let it be. Allow all the Gremlin’s ranting to pour out. Sit back and
enjoy it for a change. Put a smile on your face as you listen calmly.
Separate yourself from that Gremlin who’s doing all the whining and
complaining.

3. Ask him questions.
Get as intimate as you can with him. Find out what sets him off. Then
give him answers as if you were talking to a four year old trying to calm
him/her of the dark before falling asleep.

4. Pick a name for your Gremlin and talk to him out loud.
Using his name, tell him everything is going to be fine and he can take a
rest for now. Keep talking to him until he’s less noisy. Talking out loud
will create a shift inside of you that won’t happen when you just think
about the conversation. By the way, my Gremlin’s name is Gertrude.

5. Be gentle with your Gremlin.
Visualize your arm around him, soothing him, comforting him, allowing
him to rest his head on your shoulder. Remember, he’s scared, he
doesn’t want you to fall down and he believes he’s doing what’s best for
you.

Once your Gremlin is under your control this is when you want to
connect with the Genie within. Your Genie is that part of you that creates
comments, ideas and questions that allow you to feel like your moving
forward instead of being stuck. He’ll have you feeling better about
yourself overall.

5 Genie Questions

1. What’s working in my life for me?
2. What’s my intention in this moment?
3. What wants to be born from this?
4. What would be my best choice at this time?
5. What can I do for myself right now to feel a little bit better?

Linda Salazar
Certified Personal Life Coach, Author, Speaker
310-375-4800
Awaken The Genie Within

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