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Life, Anyway You Want It

Life, death. One is as certain as the other. And many people, in fact, prepare themselves for the latter a lot more thoroughly than for the former. There’s the life insurance which thoughtful people take out to ensure that those loved one left behind will end up more prosperous with you dead, then they ever were while you were alive. Or if you’re too selfish to do that, at least you’ll leave enough money for your loved ones to bury you with dignity once you’ve kicked the bucket.

But as for life, it’s just supposed to happen. And if those feelings of dread that we’re often subjected to at odd moments of the day or night are any indication, most of us do, indeed, live our lives with ‘quiet desperation’.

And yet, according to Lynn Grabhorn, we are the creators of our own lives. Good or bad, fairy tale or just grim, the lives we have are not necessarily the lives we deserve, or want, or wish for, but none the less, are the lives that we have created for ourselves.

Working at a job you hate? Drowning in debt? Partner has just left you with a ‘Dear John’ letter?

If you’ve been blaming conditions, people, governments, circumstances, according to Lynn you’re blaming the wrong people. The person who is to blame is you.

Life is not a lottery with some people having it all and others born to suffer. Life is not a matter of incidence or coincidence. If there’s anything in your life which you don’t like, look no further than your feelings.

The feelings you harbour every minute of every day is what creates the kind of life you have right now. It has nothing to do with whether you’re a good person or a bad person, whether you’re a benevolent person or a selfish person. It’s all about your feelings.

Make no mistake, good people, like you and I, who don’t steal or kill, or do any of the other nasties we’re not supposed to do, are not necessarily happy people. The quality of our lives are not created by the fa

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Richer Than Solomon. Without the Unhappy Ending

Something that ticks most people off is that whenever you complain to one of these bigger organizations, nine times out of ten you get the reply, ‘I’m sorry, it’s Company rule. We can’t do anything about it.’ And it’s almost as if they’re saying that this rule is beyond human power to transcend, when we’d have to be slightly thick if we didn’t realize that the reason the Company has such a rule is that it benefits them. The day the rule benefits the customer more than the Company, changing the rule will be done with the alacrity of a gazelle trying to outrun a hungry lion.

According to Lynn Grabhorn, rules have been used from the beginning of time to allow one section of humans to subdue another. The people who wanted it all convinced the rest of the world that it had been their fortune to rule, and the misfortune of the majority, to be ruled. The necessity for this was the fact that there’s only so much in the world to go around.

And for thousands of years now, we’ve imbibed this theory that some of us are born into the greater unlucky majority who will struggle and toil, and never get anywhere, while the lucky few get all the breaks.

‘Phooee to that,’ says Lynn Grabhorn. There is enough for all of us. We are all worthy, able, and capable of having it all. According to Lynn, all we need to do is to create our own world by forgetting all those must do, should do, have to do, expected to do, and all the rest of the rules that tend to immobilize us and make victims of us.

Then, having thrown off those shackles, here is a four step process to get you to begin to attract out of the willing universe everything your heart desires.

  • Identify what you DON’T want
  • From that, identify what you DO want
  • Get into the feeling place of what you want
  • Expect, listen, and allow it to happen.

    By refusing to be a victim of when you were born, where you were born, to whom you were born, and simply accept that your own feelings - bad or good - have created your reality to date, you can begin to live the life of abundance curtailed only by your own imagination.

    Vlady Peters is an Australian Civil Marriage Celebrant authorised to perform marriages in Australia. She also perform general ceremonies such as Baby Naming, Renewal of Vows and Commitment Ceremonies. To learn more about her as a celebrant and an author visit vlady at http://www.weddings-celebrant.com

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