Attractive Attraction

Everyday, all over the world, there are millions of people with a dream. And, what may be a big dream to one person can seem like a small dream to another. The fact is, the size of the dream is irrelevant. It’s the belief in attaining the dream that makes all the difference in the world. The stronger the belief and the greater the passion, the more you increase your odds of having your dream come true.

Unfortunately, for many people, their dream can die the minute they ask themselves one simple question; “How can I make it happen?” That question can stop you dead in your tracks because all too often it’s a self-defeating question. Your mind does not easily come up with solutions when you believe you need certain resources to assist you in attaining your dream that are not readily accessible to you.

There are thousands upon thousands of people who have had the odds stacked up against them and still manifested their heart’s desire. The Wright Brothers, Mary Kay Ash, Fred Smith (founder of Federal Express), Olivia Goldsmith (author, The First Wives Club), Bill Gates, Estee Lauder, just to name a few.

No one has all the answers in front of them when their dream first appears in their mind’s eye and that’s the good news. Because when you think you’ve got it all figured out before you begin, you’re probably thinking too small.

The Universe is a place of abundance and knows no limitations. It’s capable of creating the right circumstances and connections that you might never think of on your own. It will guide you every step of the way when you’re willing to get out of your own way and actually say, “I have no idea what to do next, show me.” Then it’s your job to watch for “the signs” that are there to assist you along the way.

Asking yourself, “How?” over and over again can keep you stuck and in the dark. The longer you stand in the dark, the more frustrated you can become which keeps the light from shining on those signs. And remember, the signs are not always in the form of a burning bush. They can be very subtle, but they’re always there.

Letting go of the how puts you into a greater state of receiving. It allows you to lighten your mental load which helps you become more connected to the Universe’s energy. When this happens you are then an attraction magnet for whatever it is you need next, to keep you moving forward, bringing you closer to your heart’s desire.

Practice letting go of the how with something you’ve wanted to see happen in your life. Allow yourself to be okay with not knowing what to do next and ask for some signs that will guide you more easily.

Pay attention to the feeling you have when you think about the next action you might take. If it feels good, and not like a struggle, follow that instinct. Don’t force your actions. Tap into the powers of the Universe and use it as your compass.

And always remember these two things;

1. Enthusiasm and passion are contagious and will draw people to you who want to help you achieve your dream.

2. Be the master of your circumstances not the victim.

I’ll leave you with these two quotes:

“You look them straight in the eye and say, ‘Don’t tell me it’s impossible until after I’ve already done it.’”

-Pam Lontos

Motivational Speaker, Author

“Your imagination is the preview to life’s coming attractions.”

-Albert Einstein

Copyright 2005, Linda Salazar all rights reserved.

Linda Salazar
Certified Personal Life Coach, Author, Speaker
310-375-4800
Awaken The Genie Within

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If you find yourself in a difficult situation, don’t continue doing what you are doing. Although, it might seem like simple advice that should be common sense, remember common sense isn’t. It is based on life experience. If we haven’t had the experience, we might not know how to handle it. We may be under the illusion that if we keep on doing what we are doing things will change. They won’t. Doing the same thing and expecting things to be different is the definition of insanity. If you are not getting the results you want, it is because you are not doing the right actions. Stop doing what you are doing and do something else, anything else. Just remember, if you are in a hole, the best thing to do is stop digging and create a plan for getting out of the hole.

When life isn’t going our way, the first thing to look at is our actions. Stop and ask yourself what you are doing to create the situation. It might seem like you are an innocent victim, but the truth is there are very few innocent victims. Most of us, when given the opportunity, can figure out what part we are playing in creating what we don’t want in our lives. It can be something like staying in a job we hate, or letting a friend treat us poorly, or not standing up for ourselves. More than likely we are doing something or allowing something to happen that isn’t serving us. Stop! Give yourself the opportunity to take a few steps back from the situation and access what is really going on. If you can’t do this on your own, seek help from a professional or trusted friend. Often, others can see what isn’t working in our lives and what the cause is better than we can. Once you figure out what you need to do differently, do it. Knowing what to change and not changing it doesn’t help you.

Where are you continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole? Perhaps you continue to overspend creating more and more credit card debt or perhaps you are not taking the steps that will enable you to seek a better job. Whatever you are doing that is creating a deep hole, stop, decide what actions you are doing that contribute to the situation and change it. Awareness is the first step. The next step is to take action.

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So you want to make your life all that it can be. I am often asked by my readers for direct action plans to take them to the life they want to live.
It is a difficult question to answer, because everyone has a different dream. Here are a few things that can be a great asset and should be
incorporated into your daily plan for life.

1. Read something new every day. I can not stress
this enough. I have read every single day for the
last twenty years and have found that it creates
several wonderful effects. The first thing it does
is exercises my mind. When you are constantly
taking in new information, your mind will stay
sharp. You will be more aware of emerging trends
and be able to act on them from a good knowledge
base. The more you read, the better you will
write. Writing is an asset to you no matter what
you want to do in life. You will be a more
interesting person. Having new things to talk
about keeps you refreshing to those around you.
Have you ever been around someone who says the
same old things every time you see them? Also,
vary the subjects that you read. The more diverse
your knowledge, the more you will be able to be a
trend setter, rather than a trend follower. I have
many times come up with truly powerful ideas by
taking several bits of information from different
subjects and finding new ways to combine them.

2. Gear your mind towards solving problems.
The people who are most successful in life are the
people who make it their job to solve problems.
Problems exist all around us. Everywhere we go
there are things that can be done better, cheaper,
or faster. Opportunities are all around you. Open
your mind to the idea that you can solve the
world’s problems one at a time.

3. Write down your goals at least once a year.
I like to work backwards on this. I project my goals
far into the future and then plan my actions from
that point to the present. Also, I always set my
goals farther than I really believe I can achieve.
This is for two reasons. The first is that I will
not be the same person a year from now. I will
have aquired new skills, gained new experience and
refined my tastes. The second is that I can
achieve far more setting my goals higher than if I
kept them reasonable.

4. Study management at every opportunity. You can
begin this one with observing your boss at work.
Start asking yourself what makes them a manager.
Figure out exactly what they do. Employees think
in terms of what they have to do to complete
tasks. Managers think in terms of who they need to
get tasks done. Managers also think of ways to
combine tasks, eliminate steps in a process,
reduce costs and increase productivity. If you
learn to think like a manager, you will immediately
see your life getting better.

5. Always give yourself the first cut of any money
you aquire. This applies to dividends, paychecks,
gifts or any other money you receive. If you set a
percentage that you routinely take out of all
money received and set it aside for yourself, you
will always be one step ahead. Use this money to
invest in investments that provide a good rate of
return and allow the power of leverage to spring
you forward financially!

If you do these five things every day, in one year
you’ll be amazed at what you have accomplished!

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