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Words Are Seeds

The words you speak sow seeds in the minds of those who hear. The formed word is like the shell of the seed. It hides the potential for manifestation in its tiny, unassuming exterior. The word can fool us with its humble appearance. It passes swiftly in conversation: just a couple of syllables, spoken and then gone. And yet, like the seed in the earth, the word may have vanished from view, but there, under the surface, it enters a transformational process. With just a few favorable conditions, that camouflaged fleck takes root.

The shell of the word (its spelling, sound and language) cracks open in the fertile
ground of consciousness. Out pours its vibrational essence.

Three Kinds of Words.

You can find countless more complex classifications of words
than this one. This little system has nothing to do with grammar or parts of speech. It
simply sorts all your words into three piles of seeds.

Flowers.

Flower words beautify your experience. When you speak them they brighten
those who hear. They highlight what is wanted in a way that makes good things
palpable and present. When you speak flower words, these seeds sprout into beneficial
experiences in the lives of those who are listening.

Fruits.

Fruit words nourish. In times of tragedy, fruit words offer ease and comfort. In
times of challenge, these words bring encouragement. In times of inspiration, they
burst with colorful, nutritious enthusiasm. Fruit words fill a gap with just what is
needed. They carry the recipient forward. Fruit words work miracles.

Weeds.

Weed words perpetuate habits. Some of them can even look pretty and serve a
function, but if you sow too many weeds they tend to squeeze out the flowers and
fruits. Weed words are the ones spoken with no clear intention. They fill whatever
space they can and they offer no harvest. Weed words dampen your sense of aliveness.

Two Kinds of Soil.

Words float from your lips and they land in two places at once. They
land in others who hear your words. They also land in you.

Others.

Once your words have been spoken and heard, the seed’s shell begins to
dissolve very quickly. The vibrational essence reverberates in the recipient and mingles
with their experiences and associations. A whole new creation takes form.

You.

When you hear your own words, they re-impregnate your field of consciousness
with the essence of the meaning you intended when you spoke them.
If they were flower words, your life would become happier because you spoke them. If they were fruit words, you would feel more satisfied and stabilized in their wake. Many
times in the day we tend to speak weed words. In that case, you maintain your state
just the way it has been. No great benefit or detriment comes of it. If you begin tipping the scales toward more and more weed words, you’ll start to feel
the undesirable outcome of your sowing. On the other hand, if you get even a little bit
more intentional with your flowers and fruits and cut down on your weed words, the
difference in your manifestation will be remarkable.

No Dictionaries.

It’s easy to tell which words are which. You can tell by the way you feel
as the words are coming out of your mouth what kind of seeds you are speaking. You
don’t have to look up a word in the dictionary to see if it is a flower or a weed. It won’t
even work to make a list of fruit words and decide to speak only those. Since the
spoken or written word only shows you the outer shell of the seed, you must look inside
yourself at every utterance to know what kind of seeds you are tossing to the wind.

The very same word, when spoken in different situations, may germinate with
completely different results.

Instant Harvest. Although words can instigate creation of tremendous duration, there is
a moment of instant harvest as the words are spoken. You can feel the immediate
sprouting even before you finish your sentence. At that moment, if you recognize a
weed taking form, you can shift your conversations and produce a flower before you
even pause for your next breath.

Joyous Harvest.

Paying attention to the seeds you are sowing with your words has
nothing to do with word selection. Let your words flow. In order to harvest a joyful
satisfying life, follow these three simple instructions and let the words choose
themselves:

ONE. On the day-to-day path of your consciousness, let your attention be drawn to
things you love. The more you allow this natural movement, the more you will be
inspired to utter flower words.

TWO. In your interactions with others, see everyone you encounter as an expression of
divine life force in a unique configuration. The more you look into the essence of others,
the more you will be inspired to utter fruit words.

THREE. Assign brief periods, maybe five or ten minutes, when you pause before
speaking. In these segments, check your intention before the words take on sound. In
these brief, private training sessions, you will invite greater expression of flowers and
fruits and you will begin to naturally diminish the weed population in your conversation.

You can inspire others to greatness. You can open your access to ever expanding joy. Make your sowing of words more intentional and your life will overflow with a continuous harvest of fulfillment.

© Rebbie Straubing

You can receive Dr. Rebbie Straubing’s Free e-Course,
“7 Secrets for Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire,” at
http://www.yofa.net

Rebbie is a workshop leader, Abraham Coach, and writer.

To find or harmonize a relationship, visit http://www.GreatRelationships.net

Increase your awareness of Divine Love and begin a meditation practice in 3 minutes at the Affirmative Contemplation website, http://www.AffirmativeContemplation.com

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Invisible Assumptions

They are sort of like the bones in your body. You can’t see them and yet they give you your shape and they determine how you move. If they change, everything changes. You can imagine them like the wood frame of a house.
Concealed behind the walls, it gives the dwelling its form and character. To change the house, to build an extension or to dormer the roof, the frame must be altered.

I’m talking about your beliefs. Not the ones you can easily
name, like believing in a religion or in a political cause. It’s the invisible ones. The ones
that give your personality its shape. The ones that determine where you stand and how
you move. Those are the unseen structures that exert more influence in your life than
just about anything else.

In the same way that the shape of the bones of your arm let your elbow bend one way
and not the other, the invisible assumptions that you hold let your consciousness move
in one way and not another. Ultimately, it means your life unfolds in that way. Like an
elbow, it can’t go the other way.

Poof

When they are old, habitual and unconscious, these beliefs are not so different from the
two-by-fours in your walls. Your frame-like thought-forms build your reality its theatre.

They give your reality the semblance of being hard and fixed. The architecture doesn’t
budge. Reality seems solid.

But unlike their earthy, wooden cousins the two-by-fours, these structural beliefs can
change, dissolve and completely transform in the blink of an eye. Then, poof, the whole
house changes form. In the case of the body, it suddenly becomes flexible where it had
been stiff and cramped. The structure of the mind, having changed shape, changes the
shape of your life.

You can’t see them
I was struggling with a computer problem. I spent four hours creating and deleting and
creating and deleting folders and not only did I not fix the problem, I created a much
bigger one.

I decided to get myself out of the hole I was digging and to spend some time tending to
my vibration. I looked at the bigger picture. I invited my native enthusiasm about the
project. I re-ignited the calling of my heart that led me to this journey in the first place.
With my passion reawakened, I was able to realize that this was just a little technical
snag. No big deal. I got myself very, very happy about my project and about
everything that was going magnificently well. I stoked my faith that it would all work
out. Even though nothing had changed on my screen, I was feeling pretty good.

The next day, I received an email from tech support suggesting that I double-check my
folders. The technician explained that the program would not work if all the folders
were in another folder.

The funny thing was that I was working under the assumption that they had to be in
that other folder in order to work.

This was an invisible assumption. It never even occurred to me to ask about this
because I didn’t think it was in question.

It was causing my whole project to fail. And it all boiled down to an invisible
assumption.

This was just a little technical snafu. What about the bigger issues in life? What about
anxiety and depression? What about our addictions and our struggles?
Seeing Through
All these difficult states of consciousness are built on beliefs. The kind you don’t even
know you have. Within the emotional walls of anxiety you’ll find the two-by-fours of a
belief in disempowerment. They are hidden within the structure of depression. They
give rage its shape.
How do you renovate your beliefs? How do you change the shape and functionality of
your life? It requires looking through the situation rather than at it. For as long as you
may look at your elbow, you don’t see the articulation of the bones. All you know is
which way it bends.

In order to look through the situation you must stop thinking the situation is fixed and
real and final. You look through it when you pay attention to how you feel. Abraham*
tells us that our emotions are our guidance system. They are also your x-ray machine.
They tell you what is going on under the skin of the situation. They tell you the shape
of the underlying bones. They reveal the structure behind the walls.

Under Construction

Here’s a quick little exercise you can do to start moving walls and adding extensions to
your reality.

1. First find something you love about your reality just the way it is. Find a space of
appreciation from which to launch your project.

2. As you think about the unwanted situation in your life, notice how it feels to you.

3. Understand this feeling as a structure.

4. Imagine yourself changing the structure. Make it a space that feels wonderful and
just right for you. Shift the frame. Move the walls. Add doors and windows if you like.

Do anything that feels a little bit better to you. Do it quickly and easily. Don’t think
about it too much. You can’t do this wrong.

When you revisit this previously difficult area of your life, you may feel more open to
new possibilities than you have ever been. You may be surprised at your frequent
discovery of solutions that were “staring you in the face” the whole time. And your
joints may suddenly become more limber, too.

All structures in your life benefit from even a few moments of tending to the structure
of your invisible assumptions. And the best part of it is that you don’t have to know
what these assumptions are. All you have to know is how you want to feel in your new
dwelling.

© Rebbie Straubing

You can receive Dr. Rebbie Straubing’s Free e-Course,
“7 Secrets for Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire,” at
http://www.yofa.net

Rebbie is a workshop leader, Abraham Coach, and writer.

To find or harmonize a relationship, visit http://www.GreatRelationships.net

Increase your awareness of Divine Love and begin a meditation practice in 3 minutes at the Affirmative Contemplation website, http://www.AffirmativeContemplation.com

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Inside The Prism

I’ve been wearing glasses since the first grade. If you put my glasses on, you may spin for a brief moment. Same thing if I look through yours. We all know that the lense you look through affects what you see.

The Loop

We live in a loop. When talking about how we create our own
reality, ‘Abraham’ often highlights the distinction between
observing and imagining. They tell us that we tend to observe
what we have created. Then, by giving our attention to what has already been created,
by making what we observe our point of focus, we create it again and again.

So whether you are looking at your spouse or your bankbook, when you are in the
observing mode, it’s a good idea to seek things to observe that you would want more of
- things that feel good when you observe them.

Carefully choosing the lens you look through, whether you are looking at loved ones or
strangers, blessings or challenges, becomes a practice in itself. Selecting your focus
with awareness makes all the difference in your experience of the moment. It also
determines how you seed your future experience. But you already know that. That’s
how we make the most of the loop.

Mystical Transformation

You can also opt out of that loop. And you may want to, even if you’ve got the loop
working pretty well for you. You can choose a more original, satisfying and
extraordinary creative pathway. This is the mystical path. It begins with a simple shift
in focus.

You set foot on this mystical trail when you acknowledge that, although your reality
may be influenced by the lens you are looking through, there is a larger factor at play.
Here’s how it works. As long as you are in the observing mode, you are steeped in a
limiting belief system. You live in a world where the story you are experiencing seems
to have an objective reality. You think your world is out there, solid and real and you
walk into it.

Even though you can make it more or less enjoyable by the lens you choose as you
look around, you are still looking around. You are still enmeshed in the belief that
reality is already created. You still sense that it is out there and waiting for you to walk
into it and react to it.

One pivot point changes everything. You pivot onto a mystical detour when you realize
that you create as you go. That the power is not in the lens but in the one who is
looking through the lens. If you want a profound transformation, not only in your
circumstances, but in your experience of life itself, look behind the glasses. There you
will find a different type of lens. There you will find the prism that you are.

Manifestation of the Rainbow

The prism you are determines the life you create. White light enters a prism and out
come rainbows. The white light of Source Energy enters your human prism and
emerges as the specifics of your life. White light is pure life potential and it streams
through you as consciousness.

Inside the prism, something extraordinary happens. We can tell because light enters
the prism white and singular and it exits the prism colored and diverse. As the light
leaves the prism, it reveals what had been its secret potential. It shows its colors.

Life energy pours into you at every moment. Undifferentiated Source Energy streams
into the vortex that you are. Within you, it gets split apart and turned into the many
vibrations of your consciousness. Different vibrations (wavelengths) produce different
experiences (colors). Pure spirit transforms into the manifestations of your life via the
prism of your individuality.

How you are and who you are determine the life you generate. The cleaner and purer
your prism, the more magnificent your unique rainbows.
Windex
How do you cleanse and purify the prism that you are? Most spiritual paths offer
practices for just this purpose. Here’s a simple 2-step process you can start using every
day to clean your prism.

1. Spray. When you’ve got dirt and grime on your prism (limiting habits of thought), it’s
hard to go straight from grimy to pure. It helps to spray on a little cleanser. Our
cleanser will be a word. Choose “love” or “beauty” or your favorite name for God. Sit in
meditation with this word as your mantra. Make sure it is a word that rings true for
you. Then steep your consciousness in the vibration of this word. Breathe the word.

2. Wipe. Once you feel a shift in your state, use silence as your cloth to clear away both
the dirt and the soap. Let go of your awareness of both your limiting beliefs and your
mantra. Sit in the silence - even if just for a moment or two.
This simple process, practiced regularly, brings out new colors in your relationships. It
brightens the eyes of your loved ones. It clears the obstacles from your career path. It
renews your vitality. It opens extraordinary possibilities that can only be seen in the
light of the rainbow.

© Rebbie Straubing

You can receive Dr. Rebbie Straubing’s Free e-Course,
“7 Secrets for Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire,” at
http://www.yofa.net

Rebbie is a workshop leader, Abraham Coach, and writer.

To find or harmonize a relationship, visit http://www.GreatRelationships.net

Increase your awareness of Divine Love and begin a meditation practice in 3 minutes at the Affirmative Contemplation website, http://www.AffirmativeContemplation.com

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