Attractive Attraction

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Muscles Don’t Push

When I was in chiropractic school, I had a teacher who liked to
impress one point on our fertile, young minds. He repeated it over
and over and reminded us of this fact every time the subject matter
allowed.

The point was this: Muscles don’t push. They can’t.

Physical Muscle Only Pulls. Muscles can only pull. All a muscle can
actively do is shorten. That’s how all the intricate motions of ballet and kung fu and
mountain climbing are done: by muscles getting shorter and moving the bones they are
partnered with. They can only pull. They can’t push.

Universal Muscle Only Attracts. Some years later I found myself at an Abraham*
workshop. It was in Abraham’s message that I realized that our muscles, even the
tiniest human muscle, hardly more than a millimeter long, all these muscles, large and
small, carry in their function and morphology a huge universal principle.

Our human
anatomy reflects a lesson that, when learned, can change your life.
Abraham teaches us that there is no such thing as exclusion, only inclusion. That
means the muscle of the Universe can only pull things toward you. It can’t push things
away from you. Every time you try to push something away from you, you simply draw
it to you by your attention to it.

Although Abraham doesn’t talk about muscle, they teach us well about Law of
Attraction. And Law of Attraction acts as the muscle of the universe. It moves things.

And it moves things toward each other. Not just anything. It moves things of a like
vibration toward each other. If you could get a cosmic view of the swirling movement,
it might appear that some things are moving away from each other, but that’s because
they are moving toward something else.

The universe does not push. And so it makes perfect sense that our muscles don’t push
either. We match universal law and our genius bodies illustrate the principle brilliantly.

No pushing here.

“Pushing” Logic. Of course, you can push a baby stroller. Doors are labeled “pull” and
“push” and we have no trouble doing either. You can even push a car if you have to.

But pushing is an illusion. It results from a specific combination of pulls. No one muscle
can push the door open.

We are often tempted to push against the things we don’t want. We think that if we
fight against something, it will go away. And sometimes it seems very logical that if we
push hard enough against something that it will go away.

That’s why even some of us who are long-time Abraham students can still find
ourselves ignoring what we’ve been taught about Law of Attraction. We can still find
ourselves pushing against the things we don’t want. And once we get pushing, we push
harder and harder.

When we look at our own anatomy and see this beautiful no-push principle reflected in
our muscles, it brings it home. You can only pull. And yet, by cooking up a recipe of a
variety of pulls, you either bring things toward you or you create the effect of things
moving away from you.

But in a universe of attraction and in a body of muscle, the only way to have things
move away from you is by bringing something else toward you.

How Things Move Away From You. Let’s break this down into two groups.

1. First, there are the things you don’t want in your life. These are the things you are
trying to push away.

These undesirables may include your friend’s irritating attitude, your pile of unpaid bills,
the aches and pains in your body or anything else that you don’t want in your
experience. Your logic may be telling you that by “pushing” against it, it will go away.

Law of Attraction is telling you that by giving your attention to it, you are drawing it
and more things like it, to you.

Here you have the feeling that you are moving things away from you, but by Law of
Attraction, you are really bringing them closer.

2. And then, there are the things you do want in your life. You want these to move
toward you and yet, they may seem to be moving away from you.

These desirables include all the wonderful people, things and situations you want to
draw into your experience. But you may have noticed that some of them are not in
your experience. You may even have your thoughts focused in such a way that you feel
fear, worry, frustration or some other kind of upset about the things you desire because
they are not in your experience.

This creates the effect of the things you want moving away from you. But that’s not
really what is happening. Remember, the muscle of the universe only attracts.

Big Muscle, Little Muscle. You can use this hidden relationship between Law of
Attraction and your very own muscle to create your life in a way that brings you more
joy.

First, remember that Law of Attraction is bringing to you things that match how you
vibrate. To expand your understanding of yourself as a vibrational being and to deepen
your awareness of Law of Attraction, you can refer to the teachings of Abraham.*

Second, remember that your muscles can actively only pull things toward you. Now
let’s put this all together and make it work for you.

How to Use Your Muscles.

Here’s the trick that will shift how you’re attracting. Spend
more time engaging your muscles with things you want to bring toward you than with
things you want to push away from you.

How simple!

Let’s apply this to both examples.

1. If there is something that you do not want, do not engage your muscles with that
thing. Do not use your leg muscles to walk toward it. Do not use your face and head
muscles to face it, look at it and talk about it. Do not use your arm and hand muscles
to reach out to touch it. Find something you want in your experience and engage your
muscles with that.

2. If there is something you want but it isn’t yet part of your experience, use your leg
muscles to take you to places where you can get the feeling of the thing you desire.

Use your face muscles to talk about how good you will feel when this thing you want
arrives.

Use every muscle you can to prepare yourself to receive the thing you desire when it
comes to you. Now you have lined up your personal muscle with the muscle of the
universe and you have a mighty partner.

This simple physical practice can shift your manifestation exponentially.

*Gratitude to Jerry and Esther Hicks and Abraham. Visit www.abraham-hicks.com

© Rebbie Straubing

You can receive Dr. Rebbie Straubing’s Free e-Course,
“7 Secrets for Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire,” at
http://www.yofa.net

Rebbie is a workshop leader, Abraham Coach, and writer.

To find or harmonize a relationship, visit http://www.GreatRelationships.net

Increase your awareness of Divine Love and begin a meditation practice in 3 minutes at the Affirmative Contemplation website, http://www.AffirmativeContemplation.com

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Polishing The Rough Moments

Every single instant of now expands to the size and shape of your calling. What are you asking of this moment? This very moment may not be grabbing your attention. It may not seem noticeable or noteworthy. Maybe nothing much is happening right now. No great events. No deep emotions. And yet, every moment, even this one, throbs with infinite potential. There is
not one single instant of now that is not a valuable gem. A crystal of infinite facets. A brilliant opening with the ability to reveal divine light.

Rough Moments

Some moments present a more challenging configuration than others. If your ship is
being tossed by a turbulent situation, you can navigate through the difficulty more
smoothly. You can influence its resolution. You have more power in your own
experience than you may realize.

You can begin by recognizing that the negative emotion you are feeling is an indication
of a strong desire. Once you shift the crosshairs of your mental focus away from the
problem and toward the desire that is calling to you, you begin to reframe the whole
situation. The despair, depression, rage or fear were only there to get your attention.

They were blaring the alarms of disconnection, telling you that you had temporarily
veered off course and were out of tune with your heart’s desire. What a great system.

So, when you are feeling really, really bad, develop a new reflex. Instead of
interpreting that bad feeling as, “This is a problem,” see it as a signal. When you notice
that sick feeling in your stomach, let it trigger the understanding, “There is something I
want and I am not yet resonant with that desire.”

Once you can truly replace the awareness of the problem with the understanding that
you have a desire and it is just a matter of time before you come into harmony with it,
you are back on course and you can begin enjoying the ride again. Once your
viewfinder is no longer centered on the outer circumstance, you have new possibilities
within your reach. Once you zoom in on what it is you want and you start moving
yourself into alignment with that desire, you are actively shifting the outcome and
you’re on your way to bright moments.

Bright Moments

The polishing process does not add anything to the stone or the metal. It reveals their
essence. When we polish the rough moment we do not have to fix it or paint it or
decorate it. We are not trying to make it more rosy than it is. When we polish the
moment we are releasing the conflicting thought forms that obscure its natural beauty.

We don’t have to add the light. The now shines its own brilliance when we let it. Then
the moment transforms from rough to glimmering.

Equality

Everyone’s got as much now as everyone else. You can’t collect nows or deplete your
store of nows. You can’t stockpile them or give them as gifts. This one that is
happening right now is yours to create with. It cannot be stolen or lost. It cannot be
saved for later. Use it now because it will be gone and another one will slide right in to
replace it.

Since no one can take it away from you and since it is perpetually replenished, your
now is your true wealth. I invite you to polish it. Let its essence shine forth. Let this be
the most fulfilling and satisfying moment you have had in a while.

Meditation

Light a candle. Watch the movement of the flame. Notice its fluid continuity. Feel how it
straddles the space between physical and nonphysical. Let it represent the moment for
you. Experience the elastic power of your now. Soften your grip on the moment and let
the dance of the flame teach you the secret of moving through every moment of now
with bright light, soft power and fluid navigation.
Rough moments often shine up to offer the most beautiful lights and like the stars in
the night sky, they offer the clearest sign of which way to go.

© Rebbie Straubing

You can receive Dr. Rebbie Straubing’s Free e-Course,
“7 Secrets for Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire,” at
http://www.yofa.net

Rebbie is a workshop leader, Abraham Coach, and writer.

To find or harmonize a relationship, visit http://www.GreatRelationships.net

Increase your awareness of Divine Love and begin a meditation practice in 3 minutes at the Affirmative Contemplation website, http://www.AffirmativeContemplation.com

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